Consiglio: Do your own thing, never plan any events around other people, If you want to learn music, start hitting the gym, go travelling, do it all yourself, if someone wants to tag along, let them but don’t COUNT on them.

It took me YEARS to figure this out, unfortunately.

How many of you actually follow this though? I've been doing this for a couple years now and my quality of life as improved so much. I'm not saying “be a social reject”. Just go against the grain, be a leader, not a follower. That is all. I do hope this helps some of you out!