He was my guidance counselor. I didn’t realize how creepy he was until he proposed. The whole thing was fucked.
I never dated a teacher, but ohhhh did I have fantasies about them, when I was in 9th grade I told a teacher as soon as I turned 16, I was dropping out, I think I told him that, sorry I smoked a lot of pot from 12 to like 20, but I do know that as I walked away, in my usual skin tight pants he told me I needed to be spanked, be still my heart, that was always one of my favorite fantasies. Now he never spanked me, but I spent many a time fantasizing about him spanking me either in the locked classroom after everyone left school, or in his office and I knew girls who dated teachers and THEY perused those teachers, not vice versa, they knew exactly what they were doing, I went to school with very mature teenagers. .
Obligatory “not a woman” opener because OP, you won’t get many genuine responses from your target audience here.
But when I was in school, it wasn’t uncommon for a 15 year old girl to be dating a 21 year old lad.
It was a status thing on both parts. He had the young girl (which apparantly was something to boast back then) and she had the older lad who could drive a car.
I saw that happen a lot, especially with the more popular girls who felt that dating someone the same age was beneath them. I never saw any of the older lads get convicted as “predators” (I know one went to jail for violent crimes and later killed himself to the sadness of no one.)
But I also never saw a single one of those relationships end well or any of those girls go on to be as “successful” as they were in school.