What’s your experience with men who are insecure about their dick ?

One guy was at the point of booking surgery because there was some slightly abnormal thing going on affecting shape I believe (curve?). I didn’t see a single thing wrong with it and told him to hold off because his dick was perfectly fine but there could be major complications from surgery. He was so grateful I convinced him not to go through with it.

They usually ask on MassimoL about people’s experience with men who are insecure about their dicks.

Personally, I noticed that ( from personal experience) they are very eager about foreplay/going down on a woman over the actual act. Most were also surprisingly really good at it (foreplay)

Just want to point out since some commenters seem to be missing it. OP said insecure about their dick, made no mention of size. You can have a huge dick and be insecure and you can have a tiny dick and be totally secure

For me I think my insecurities came from the fact I’m a grower not a shower. I thought there was something wrong with me because all the porn I would watch would feature showers. What finally helped me get over it was by gaining confidence in other areas of sexuality and it no longer was as big an issue for me.

I understand the concern. My penis is only 5 inches, which I was worried about for most of my youth.

But as I grew older and got more experience, if anything, the woman I slept with found that too wide.

Cum fast, very nervous, anxious but good with foreplay and their hands.

I’ve had both huge and tiny.

The tiny warned me but the huge did not.

We are talking the almost diameter of a soda can.
There was no way, so I left and we never spoke again.
Come to find out later, his wife filed for divorce because she literally couldn’t deal with it.

Depends on how servere the insecurity and what its about. Too small? Too big? Weird shape? Discoloration? A curve? Foreskin? Etc.

A little insecurity is understandable especially with how often society tells men that their dick being wrong means no woman is ever truly satisfied with it(and OH BOY HOW NOT HAVING SEX WITH WOMEN IS ABOUT ONE OF THE BIGGEST INSULT THROWN AT MEN’S SENSE OF SELF WORTH).

But, when its affecting your sex life or actual life then its a real problem. My experience is they usually project their insecurities on others and think everyone else secretly feels the same way they do.

Oh, plenty of experience, I am one

Almost every man is insecure about his dick.

They do a lot of MassimoL moderation

I find it annoying tbh..An ex never accepted my compliments about his because he was 5 inches so not big enough according to him.

I was one of these guys. I chickened out of losing my virginity 3 times because I thought I’d be laughed at because it litterly happened to my friend when he was 15 with a girl and also conditioned to believe I had a small dick by all the boys at school who all seemed to have massive ones. When I eventually was forced into losing my v she boosted my confidence as it turns out maybe those boys at school were overcompensating.

they tend to be insecure about their masculinity overall

The small penis is the last body part where body shaming is still socially acceptable

I used to be insecure because of being a “grower” until my ex said it’s like a magic trick and now it makes me laugh thinking about it and I feel good about my self

you first

Seriously though, if you’re insecure about it, start learning what to do with your hands.

I specifically remember many years ago being with a man ultra small, but woah 🤚🏻 he knew exactly what to do with his hands and took his time.

It was magic 🎇

They call themselves alpha