Used my house as a middle point so he could come into town and fuck around on his wife (also a friend of mine). When it all blew up he was unaware I knew what was going on and he fed me a bunch of shit that wasn’t true in attempts to convince me he was somehow the victim.
So that was that.
I was in a group with friends from high school, they made some dark jokes about real life events. One day they started joking about a little kid that killed his school mates and then killed himself, they even sent pics of the poor kid (with his brains blown out). Haven’t spoke to anyone in that group in several months.
I went on a mini vacation with my friend Ken, Bill (Ken’s boyfriend), and Ross (a friend of Bill that I was meeting for the first time.) At first things were great but towards the end of the vacation, Ken and Bill got into an argument. Ross and I were uncomfortable with the situation so we went out to check out the bars downtown. Just after we had finally found a place to park, Ross got a call from Bill. We immediately go back as their fight turned physical with Ken beating on Bill. That was it. Vacation over. Ross and I packed up our things and left with Bill to take the 12hr drive home immediately. Ken saw that I was taking Bill’s side so he starts to taunt me–“What do you know about love? You’ve never had a boyfriend.” I had told him that it bothers me was that no one seems to want me. I have never found anyone that has wanted to date me. He knew where to place the knife and twist it. We left him there.
Ken hasn’t had another boyfriend since. He has lost his job and is technically homeless as far as I know.
Ross moved away down south. Last I heard he was doing well.
Bill found another man. They recently got married. I see him every now and then. He has settled in domestic life and is happy.
Her boyfriend at the time raped me. When I told her she said “so he’s cheating on me?!” … she continued to defend him on it-GOODBYE
We were friends for 8 years, neighbors for 3. After we both moved we wound up in different countries for a while, still talked weekly. Then I wound up five hours away from her, I would drive to see her at least every three-four months on my way to take my daughter to her dads even though she was an hour out of my way. Loaned her money to keep her water on (never saw the money again, also never asked for it cause if I didn’t have it to lose I wouldn’t have given it in the first place) paid for everything when we went out. She gets a new boyfriend and they drive to my city for a vacation. Tells me she’s there. She’s 2 miles away in a hotel. I invite her over she says no because boyfriend doesn’t want to, I offer to meet her for lunch at the mall she says can’t because she missed the shuttle and the 10 min 2 block walk to the mall is too far. I just finally said screw it told her she was a crappy friend and haven’t spoken to her since. It sucks, I miss her but I have better friends that deserve my attention and time.