Questa volta abbiamo cercato: [Serious] Redditors who have been in abusive relationships, what red flags did you ignore that you would advise other people to look out for?
[Serious] Redditors who have been in abusive relationships, what red flags did you ignore that you would advise other people to look out for?
Ed ecco le risposte:
I would have to say if they don’t respect your boundaries or lie about little things. If they lie about little things, they’ll lie about bigger things.
once they hit you, your done. they’re going to do it again and you CANNOT let yourself go through that. I would come home with blood on my knees because of them, it’s not worth it. you deserve better. another part is when they start making fun of you in hurtful ways, you have to speak out about it and if they don’t listen. your done get out of it. it’s hard but life will be so much better
“I’m going to kill myself”
- they are going to make sure you only talk to them but its okay for them to talk to anyone
- they assume you are fucking anyone who looks at you whether its a stranger that looked at you in the store, family member or someone talking on your xbox. you fucked them.
- they will hurt you. mentally and physically.
- they will NEVER trust you because of something they made up in there head.
- they will manipulate you to believe you are lucky to be with them
theres plenty more but all i can think of before bed
Being the “awesome guy” in public and then switching personas behind closed doors. When I first tried to tell people that my husband was abusive no one believed me because he was such a “great guy”, which was a completely false persona.