54m and 60f we still try for twice a week. No pain on her part but definitely lube. Menopause seems to dry them right up
Well, I’m 52 wife is 51. I think we average 4-6 times a week (4 around her period and recovery). We still even have doubles a few times a month. Sadly gone are the all day marathons. Someone’s gonna pull a muscle.
PS. I’m answering your question title, not really your comment underneath. Also, my wife hasn’t hit menopause yet (though I’m suspecting she is getting close to the early stages). Married 22 years.