When they can’t stop drinking regardless of the consequences
For me it was when I physically couldn’t NOT drink. I would wake up and feel guilty about drinking a six pack the night before. All day at work I would tell myself I wasn’t going to drink that night. But as soon as I’d clock out, I’d find myself driving to the market (sometimes chanting “I know I shouldn’t do this” over and over in my head), to grab a six pack before heading home. I’d drink it and the night would just feel better. Then I’d wake up, guilty, and it would start all over again.
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When something bad happens as a result of their drinking, and they still continue to get drunk.
When they can’t stay sober to do things that need to be done sober
What I should have realized was when I cared more about drinking than other things. One time I poured a glass of wine and my ex called me into the bedroom to have sex. And the whole time I was thinking about that stupid glass of wine.