Honestly there’s multiple reasons for it, not everything is selfish, sometimes people just give you bad vibes and all you can do is just ghost because they won’t take no for an answer
Simple, they no longer want to talk to you for whatever reason, they don’t owe you an explanation (its a nice thing to do but not required). So they stop talking to you,
For the simple reason that privacy has become a thing of the past and annyone can contact you with the tap of a finger, if i dont want to talk to you online then il just ignore you, becouse i am not obligated to answer you, if you want to talk, knock on my door and il tell you whats what.
It is the dating culture, especially if you’re in your 20’s and use dating apps like Tinder or Bumble.
After a while, when you’re constantly in this cycle of meeting someone, talking to them, and then moving on when things don’t click — it gets very old and repetitive to constantly say “hey I don’t think we should talk anymore”.
There’s sort of a “dating app culture” that you fall into and understand after a while, and you start taking ghosting less personally — maybe someone else they liked talking to more responded to them, maybe they got anxious and bailed, or they decided that dating takes more effort than they’re willing to put up right now, or maybe it’s just that they’re bored with your conversations.
You take the hint, understand that you’re not gonna get closure with every stranger you talk to, and you move on.
Essentially, it’s more efficient. Especially if you’re a part of the endless cycle of dating apps