I find myself liking both masculine and feminine men, and I like feminine women. So you could say there is some overlap, lol. I enjoy romance, but it comes out more when I am with a woman.
Physical features are different based on sex two. I love a set of nice legs on a woman, men I find myself more into their torso and arms. (Of course I enjoy tits.)
In men and women I like personality first, then I grow the feelings. I prefer similar traits in both genders. If we’re just talking about what I find hot, then it’s hair, first and foremost. This dude I’m into has this beautiful, longish blonde hair. It’s literally amazing. One of the girls I’m into has her hair buzzed around the sides and grown out in front. It’s really curly and adorable. Other than the obvious (breasts) I don’t really have gender specific trait preferences.
I still am kinda having a sexuality crisis, but for me I look for basically the same traits in both genders.
Someone who respects and is willing to do things you like as well. Not the relationship revolving around them, and definitely not the other half-assing their part. Seriously, some people these days have problems with not even giving half the effort in a relationship.
Bi cis female here. That’s a really hard question, my “type” is kind of all over the place when it comes to both genders but usually I like more manly men and more feminine women, though there have been exceptions to both of those.
I find it a lot easier to develop crushes on women, it usually happens soon after meeting them but with men I need to know them for a long time and become attracted to their personality. There are guys who I can look at and say “he’s hot” but it’s not as common or as easy as the way I feel about women. I’m a lot pickier with guys
In terms of common traits I like, totally different for each gender. It’s confusing even to me sometimes but I can’t really think of any similarities between men I like and women I like.
This question made me realize I’m attracted to extreme gender stereotypes and I don’t like it ):
Women: sweet, nice, someone I can take care of
Men: strong, not too nice, someone who can take care of me
But overall, I’d say I’m attracted to someone who is passionate about something. Whether it’s playing an instrument, skateboarding, video or card games or whatever I don’t even care if I like it or know anything about it.
I could probably pick all of this apart and learn something about myself, but that sounds like a problem for future me.