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“Agreeing to things just to keep the peace is actually a trauma response. When you do this you’re disrespecting your boundaries. No more making yourself uncomfortable for others to feel comfortable. You have control now. You run your life. ~DJ Love Light..Do you Agree?

More people need to try to keep the peace and maybe we could form a utopia.

No. Oftentimes, the amount of time, energy, and relationships ruined will be more than winning will gain you.

In other words, don’t sue for less than your lawyer costs.

Compromise typifies adulthood while an obstinate petulance is exhibited by juveniles with no discretion or diplomacy; compromising your arbitrary boundaries and inhibitions is an inevitability of life. However, compromises that encroach up in your autonomy, dignity, and contravene upon your human rights are unconscionable.

An adult has an obligation to discern the distinctions between compromise through coercion or deception and an acquiescence to another without any adverse repercussions.

We cannot maintain a civilised society without personal accountability, responsibility, nor refraining from antagonizing other because we presuppose we will be accommodated.

The bellicose, intolerant approach can easily be an imposition up in others so context is imperative.

Compromise is a thing, and it works, but DJ Love Light isn’t talking about compromise. I agree.

I think that it depends heavily on the context and that this is not a “yes” or “no” question.

For example, I was raised by Catholic parents and I went to a Catholic school. They took me to mass every week and everything. Yet, I’m agnostic and they don’t know it. Basically because it would hurt them a lot and since I still live with them it would be terrible for our relationship these days. So, whenever they say something related to religion I always reply “as you say” or something like that without ever openly disagreeing.

Whenever I move out I’ll tell them, but with the current situation, I don’t see that happening in the near future.