Questa volta abbiamo cercato: “Agreeing to things just to keep the peace is actually a trauma response. When you do this you’re disrespecting your boundaries. No more making yourself uncomfortable for others to feel comfortable. You have control now. You run your life. ~DJ Love Light..Do you Agree?
“Agreeing to things just to keep the peace is actually a trauma response. When you do this you’re disrespecting your boundaries. No more making yourself uncomfortable for others to feel comfortable. You have control now. You run your life. ~DJ Love Light..Do you Agree?
Ed ecco le risposte:
No. There is a time and a place to insist on your boundaries, and there is a time and place to respect other people’s and give way to them. No healthy society can succeed without some form of compromise.
Yes and no, its all context based and also i think there i a whole spectrum for that, also can be caused by bad judgment
I mean I guess but I also don’t want to take life advice from “DJ Love Light”???
This not necessarily related to trauma, but it is something some people grew up learning, often from an unhealthy environment.
These people should learn that it is okay to have certain boundaries for yourself and to stand behind those even if others disagree. Of course this does not mean that you cannot compromise on anything.
Sometimes. You need to know yourself, so you know which battles are worth fighting. Trying to fight over every hill will only isolate you and eventually lead to a complete failure to achieve anything.
When you play chess, you don’t try to save every piece.