What sort of scenario are you in where he controls your life? Whatever it is, get out of it. He sounds horrible and borderline nice guy
Baby love you need to move out IMMEDIATELY. He’s not to be trusted and I don’t feel safe FOR YOU. The fact that he’s treating you like property and is attempting to make you uncomfortable by compromising the comfort of others and you in the process.
Also, never stay somewhere where your name is NOT on the lease because people like Ryan exist. Can you lock your room at all? Do you have somewhere you can go during all that is happening to bide your time?
As someone who has literally been in this precise position before – get. Out. It will not get better.
It will culminate in a bizarre fiasco where you go out one night and return to a piss soaked bed or god forbid, 1960s porno pictures taped all over your walls. Best case scenario: you have an awkward and miserable dynamic with him and your other roommates are put in a shit position. You being anywhere outside your room will be uncomfortable, and its annoying to have to lock and unlock your own bedroom everyday. Be normal and plot your escape.
You don’t want to stay there anyway, I promise you.
Does he have the legal power to kick you out?
You should start looking for another place to live immediately. This is controlling behavior and a red flag. I’m concerned things could escalate and your safety could be at risk.
It’s also odd that so many people are living there not on the lease. Would whoever owns the property be ok with that? Is his subleasing a violation of his lease? But that doesn’t really matter, bc you should be leaving as soon as possible.