U know the answer boo.
How comfortable are you that he won’t use you as his placeholder GF until he finds the next one, who is happy with having an open relationsip?
This is pretty simple. You’re ready to have an exclusive relationship with him, he’s not. He also doesn’t know when he’ll be ready. If you’re not willing to wait him out, end things.
I’m glad most of your responses are about not getting back with this dude.
He wants to be open for fear you’d cheat? Eeeh that’s weird to me. But even if it’s not because he wants to just play around, it isn’t what YOU want. I wouldn’t trust his change of heart, honestly. He’s either not reliable or he has baggage he needs to work through.
If he wanted to be exclusive with you, he would have been exclusive with you. He didn’t until it was a matter of losing you.
two months in? naw. next.