Wow he’s disgusting. Just actually end the relationship. It’s not healthy, this kind of badgering and dismissal of your feelings about it is only going to get worse with time. Throw out the whole man. Wow. That is terrible.
” One hour later he messaged me that I’m overreacting, he asked me if he can at least touch them and he asked for a boobjob as a compensation… ”
That’s sleezy as hell and gaslighty. Punt him to the curb.
break up with this rapey piece of trash
He’s not respecting your body or your wishes, and “we decided to give the relationship another try” sounds like HE talked you into it. And then he continued to not change his behavior. Kick him to the curb, he’s not going to change while in this relationship. You need to show him that there are consequences for stealing your autonomy
Sweetheart, here’s the secret to breaking up: You don’t need the other person to agree with you.
You don’t need to ask permission. You don’t need to put together a PowerPoint presentation documenting your reasons for the break-up. You don’t need to get friends and family to sign off on it.
You send him a text that reads, “I’m breaking up with you. I am going no contact and I do not want you to contact me in any way, shape or form.”
And then you block him. Everywhere. You tell your friends and family to block him. When he shows up on your front porch demanding to talk, YOU DON’T LET HIM IN. No, no matter how much he cries about “closure” and insists that you owe him an infinity of chances because “he just loves your boobs so much!“
He isn’t with you because he loves you. He’s with you because you’re a potential victim and he’s giving off a little eau d’abuser.
Cut him off unilaterally.