If he really loves you, he shouldn’t care about the color of your hair. A relationship is about loving someone for who they are, not who you want them to be.
I’ve been the guy in this situation. You have every right to do whatever you want with your body and he has every right to feel whatever way he does about it.
He might not like it or even feel attracted to you anymore if you choose to dye your hair, cut it all off or cover yourself in tattoos against his, to you well known, preferences. Just don’t be surprised when he tells me his attraction to you drops drastically due to:
- You changing your appearance away from what he already told you he likes.
- Doing so after talking about it. It’s attractive when your partner makes an effort to do the things you like and unattractive when they choose to do the opposite.
In my experience, I calmed down after a while and got used to it and then got extra attracted once she changed her hair back again so I hope the both of you can compromise and make the best of it. I’m happy you love your hair and hopefully he can appreciate that too.
Well he did say his preference so it’s not surprising he finds you less attractive