Tell him you know he left and that you watched him left and he needs to tell you why and to stop with the snoring lie. Tell him you won’t stay with him if he doesn’t tell you because this seems extraordinarily shady. If he acts like you’re being dramatic explain how extreme this is…lying about leaving the middle of the night, being dirty, etc…don’t let him gaslight you into thinking it’s ok behavior.
I would leave if he doesn’t tell you. And who knows, maybe the truth will be a worthy reason to leave him anyways. You should be concerned. Tbh maybe even you should to contact law enforcement before confronting him and ask what they think you should do. Tell someone about this you know irl…so if something happens to you they have a lead.
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well my interest is piqued, please update once you find a solution!
A lot of people are saying to track him. They’re probably just curious and want to know what he’s doing. You shouldn’t have to do that to your husband so he tells you the truth. If you confront him and he lies to you, you’re in serious need of relationship therapy. You can’t be with someone who is doing something they feel like they can’t share with you. He’s lying. I feel like you should confront him, but make sure you’re safe when doing so.