You should be more pissed about the lying than the recipe you both swiped from Emeril.
Hell, that’s some pathological shit your husband was peddling.
Any chance I could get that recipe? Love a good vodka pasta.
You’re NOT being unreasonable asking for credit. And it’s not at all unreasonable to be hurt by this. He should be proud that his wife made such a great dish – he should be happy to tell people that you’re a good cook. Instead he takes the credit for himself and then is rude to you about it after. He sounds like a selfish asshole. And that story he made up? And then acting like you wanted credit for the work, when that’s not what you were asking (not to mention the work situation)? Yikers.