Starts with “he’s a great boyfriend”, continues with various ways in which he sounds annoying af.
Personally, I’d psychoanalyse him back. “So Bob, why do you feel you need to analyse this situation, does it make you feel better than other people?” But then, I’m annoying too.
If you think he’s otherwise worth it, then yes, you probably have to get over it. Not like you haven’t tried talking to him.
I don’t think you should get over it because you have CLEARLY expressed multiple times that this is a problem and all he did was act condesending about it and continue. I’m not going to suggest breaking up but firmer bounderies with actual consequences if he doesn’t stop because if he acts like this over this what else is he going to ignore when you express that you don’t like something?
Sounds very /r/iamverysmart