You could be wearing a full 3 piece suit or a guy thong, but the confidence with which you pull it off is what makes it sexy.
Find out what her love language is and then act accordingly.
But really everyone finds different things sexy. Not all women or men think alike. Ask her what she finds sexy. Only she knows what she will find sexy.
For example, I find my bf very attractive when he’s really dominant or really submissive. But many women prefer one of the two. I prefer the hairless look also but other women prefer more hair.
Just talk with her. Ask her what she would like you to do, to wear, etc.
Be comfortable asking her what she likes and wants you to do. That’s the best thing you can do because sexy is pretty subjective. Personally, I like it when my boyfriend holds me from behind and kisses my bare shoulders. I am big on physical touch. Like another user said, find out her love language.
I guess you can’t really wear anything sexy.. I mean for me sometimes my boyfriend will try something new with me in the bedroom or something.. like a new position that’s sexy I guess! It’s sweet you want to do something for her too but I really can’t think of anything id want my boyfriend to do for me. You could make the room nice light candles or run a bath for her depends what she likes really!
candles…everywhere.
rose petals…leading to bed
wine and two glasses by the bed
music playing
a brand new vibrator
have fun