Me(22m) and my girlfriend(20f) have been together for almost 7 months now. She’s usually really sweet and caring and we discuss all our problems with each other. But sometimes she gets so sad over the fact that she “cant be with yoongi”. Who apparently is a famous rapper in the band “bts”. At first it just started out as her joking that if she ever met him she would make a move on him or whatever. Buts now it’s gotten to the point where she cant sleep. She even cries over him. I dont know how to explain all of it but the point is that she cant get over him. She says shes dreamed about him for years. She’s obsessed with him. It bothers me so much that maybe its cause im not good enough for her that she dreams about this other dude. How can i help her or whatever
Yeah…she’s not healthy or mature enough to be in a relationship. Therapy or bust.
she is not living in reality. I would say it’s a big flag.
>It bothers me so much that maybe its cause im not good enough for her that she dreams about this other dude.
She has an unrealistic, unhealthy obsession about someone she doesn’t know. This isn’t about you not being good enough (cause you are), this is her being emotionally immature and perhaps a bit mentally unstable.
>How can i help her or whatever
You can’t help others that don’t want to be helped. Don’t settle for someone if you aren’t their priority (number 1 person in their life).
Umm, she needs legit therapy.
Fucking celebrity worship is a plague