We used to tell dirty jokes to each other often but this time she got offended and called me disgusting.
I felt hurt. I replied with “That's on me I didn't know you don't like this kind of humor” (though she ranted to me before about how everyone is sensitive and can't take a joke and how she likes dark humor about sensitive stuff).
She replied with a voice message: “believe me I like this kind of humor but it felt disgusting coming from you” (with a very toxic, aggressive voice tone)
I replied: “I'm sorry okay. I didn't intend to offend you. And could you stop calling me disgusting?”
Then she texted: “okay” and reacted with a heart to my “I'm sorry” message
She didn't apologize for calling me disgusting and she's now texting me like nothing happened
I didn't open her messages. I feel like I need some space and I don't feel like replying to her messages
What should I do?
Is this my pride telling me I should be offended or was she actually toxic?
What’s the joke?
I’m confused.
You said something she didn’t like and she told you about it. You didn’t like the way she told you about it and told her. You asked her for a concession (to stop calling you disgusting) and she agreed and sent a heart and has moved on.
You’re asking if you should still be upset and harbor some resentment? Why? You got everything you asked for. Just take the win.
Honestly I’m not sure if you know what being toxic is? I could say you’re toxic because of the joke and then being offended she’s offended.
You’re not. You all are just immature it seems.
You disagreed with your friend’s opinion on your teacher so you told her to stop sucking his dick. She felt like your remark was disgusting and asked you to stop. Now you’re crying about how sensitive she is for being offended by your words when you’re offended by her words. Stop talking reckless to your friends and then crying about it when they tell you to stop.
If your schtick is telling offensive jokes, you can’t get butthurt when people are offended. I think you both sound immature honestly.
A 25 man who’s confused why a women wouldn’t want to be called a cocksucker for someone in a position of power. Common sense
It sounds like she didn’t say you are disgusting, she said the joke felt disgusting coming from you. Is the friendship worth so little to you?
You got called out and you don’t like it. You apologized she seems to have accepted it. Move on