Men of Internet, what’s something your partner does in bed that you don’t have the heart to say no/stop?

My wife thinks I will stay harder longer if she puts her vibrator on my balls when I’m doing her doggy style. It just feels awkward and sometimes she pushes too hard. But then she will say “yeah daddy likes this doesn’t he,” and I just hang on to those words to keep going lol.

Steals the covers.

Honestly she always wants to have a go late at night. I’m a morning or afternoon guy, maybe early evening. It’s always go time like right before she wants to sleep and sometimes I just don’t have it in me, but I’ll always force it anyway even though I just want to veg.

Sucking on my nipples. It doesn’t do anything for me, but she enjoys it so I won’t say anything.

Snore at deafening volume.

I was with a girl for a while who’s idea of kissing was just sticking her tongue in my mouth.. for me to suck? Or something?

She just shoved it in and did nothing, I had no idea how to address kissing with her.

Baby talk. I think she got the idea that guys like it from watching porn or something. She thinks it’s really cute and I don’t have the heart to tell her that I don’t care for it.

Edit: Not current SO. Ended before we got to the “talk”. Since people asked, here’s a definition of what I consider BT. Talking in a cutesy, higher pitched, overly feminine voice. Not talking like a baby.

My ex was very aggressive in wanting me to choke her during sex when she was drunk.

I had enjoyed some light bdsm (bondage, spanking etc) in the past but hadn’t focused on that in years.

So, fast forward and I have my new gf move in with me after me spending a few months abroad in her country.

One night while rather drunk, and she ends up demanding I choke her ‘like a man’ as we fuck. I tell her I’m really not feeling it and she loses her shit; explaining how her ex could man up and make her happy etc..

So, I, with tears in my eyes proceed to basically choke her out while in the act.. She pretty much passes out and afterward says “wtf!? I almost passed out”… and is really traumatised by it,, as am I!

Bad situation all round

Biting my lips every time we kiss

She bites her fingernails and it makes this gross wet popping sound. I can’t get her to stop. Every time she does it, I ask her if she wants me to go get her the fingernail clippers, and she just says, “No.”

All jokes aside. Most men will never say it but 75% of women don’t give good head. Some guys don’t even realize that great blowjobs exist. For all the bullshit women propagate about men not being able to please, the vast majority aren’t dynamite in bed in general.

Most men I’ve discussed this with all agree. We won’t complain about it. It still feels good and it’s a turn on for sure. Lord knows if we bitched then they’d get upset and not do it at all.

occasionally she’ll put her clothes back on at some point in the day. and, like… not a fan

Shoves her icy hands and feet onto my nice warm under the covers skin.

She is absolutely incapable of generating her own body warmth and I have to go to bed earlier than her so I’ve had a nice few hours to build up warmth for her to steal.

She HATES the cold though so I put up with it because I love her and I know it makes her feel better.

Blowjobs. She’s terrible at it, but I won’t say anything because she’s really into it and I’m not about to complain about getting my dick sucked lmao

I will never criticize anything my spouse does for the simple fact that she tries and has grown sexually over the years and it’s been a big turn on for me to help and guide her.

As a woman, these make sad 😭

When she gives you a blowjob but there is too much teeth that it hurts. You make a painful face expression, she thinks it’s an expression of pleasure and keeps going. The painful face expression gets more intense, she thinks its more pleasure…

This whole thread makes me sad. There are so many people who are afraid to be open and honest with their partner. If there is anyone in the world that you should be able to open up with, it’s the person you have chosen to spend your life with. All of the articles, research anecdotes, whatever all point to one thing for a solid relationship: communication.

Drools…but she is comfortable, and not complaining.

Grabs my hip really hard in one spot when she is having a good time. It stays sore for days. Thankfully we only have sex every month or three so I’m not usually in pain.