Men of Internet, what made you lose interest in the girl you wanted to ask out?

When I asked her about herself she was happy to tell me all about it but anytime I tried to share anything about myself she seemed immediately disinterested so I figured she just found me boring

She kept cancelling then would reschedule. It became comical how many times it had happened. Just tell me you aren’t interested in going out. I finally just stopped reaching out.

She said no.

Turns out I could not fix her and instead un-fixed myself in the process

She wanted to experiment with other girls and told me to wait until she was into guys again

She announced she was pregnant and wasn’t sure who was the dad… figured it would be best to avoid getting mixed up in that drama.

She was an 8, but her breath was a 2

I watched her bitch out a Jimmy John’s employee because she wanted to make sure they use fresh bread. When we drove away, she said said fast food employees are stupid and “never listen”. What appalling and snobbish behavior! It was a shame such beauty was wasted on an ugly person.

I saw her with a guy(nothing against him), the way they looked at each other was something pure, something that I only saw in my parents. I couldn’t even feel jealousy, I was happy for her and moved on.

She video called me drunk driving her car while smoking a joint. That was an instant no for me.

The way she treated other people.

Girl I worked with and we got along great. Talking to her one day and she says she’s never dated anyone. I asked her why. She says “because I haven’t met anyone that can afford me, I have expensive tastes”. I was 20, broke, and in college. We made the same amount so that felt like her rejecting me without me having to even ask lol. Tbh even if I had the money I’m not the person for her. Completely different attitudes on finances.

Years ago a co-worker of mine was my “work wife” and we had a blast together at work and work functions and I was totally head over heels for her. She was in a relationship that was on the rocks and only held together by a lease they couldn’t get out of at the time and heavily implied that once she got out of the lease and her own place that it was on.

She signed another lease with the guy. It was for a three bedroom apartment and she knew I was looking for a place to move to at the time. She tried suggesting I move in. I just really wasn’t comfortable with the whole situation and she got very upset that I wasn’t.

I tried explaining that I wasn’t comfortable with her now ex living with her and I wasn’t going to move in with her and start a romantic relationship with her. That had disaster written all over it. I would have definitely been a roommate or a romantic partner with her but I would not have moved in together romantically with her without dating first and I wasn’t going to be a roommate with her AND her ex.

They ended up married.

She cut off the bartender while he was telling her about the specials and said she didn’t need food “mansplained” to her. The “bartender” was my friend and a very talented bar manager, and the menu was entirely his, which he was very proud of. I brought her there specifically for that level of personal service.

She was visiting from out of town. I dropped her off at the hotel after and told her I was tired and went home. So embarrassing.

Met and fell for this punk girl back in the 90’s. We planned to go out to a punk show at this gig at a venue that was way out in the woods on this property. That sounded fine, shows in the Houston area were often like this. Then the more she talked and the more I learned, I soon realized it was a ‘gathering’ of skinhead punks and then I learned she was pretty involved in that scene. Instantly uninterested.

We had been talking/going on dates for about 2 months. We Had the exclusivity talk moving -to relationship but I could feel her getting cold feet or something? Had two weird instances that kinda made me loose interest.

1. She had a random male friend visit from out of town so they could watch a basketball game. It went until 2am or so and she tried to hide the fact that she was even hanging out with someone. (I had no issue with that and even have girl friends myself, but the way she tried to hide it rubbed me the wrong way)

2. I caught her still on the dating app we met on (we were hanging on her couch and a notification popped up). I confronted her about it, she said sorry yada yada. A week later I again see she has it on her phone and catch her lying again at that point I was done.

Some other things added to it too, but those two instances stand out.

I was the one asking all the questions. The only one I’d get was how was your weekend and then she’d interrupt with something about hers.

She had the grace and gentleness of a drunk gorilla.

Saw her sucking another dudes dick

She became my best mate instead.